Friendships are uplifting and encouraging to us but the reality is to make sure you don’t burn bridges that you don’t need to burn. Friendships help us build character and help us deal with some of the toughest moments we face in life such as the death of a loved one, break-ups, fights with other friends, rejections and firings. Friendships are truly incredible because our friends are those people who understand you more than anyone and sometimes they might understand you better than your family.
Friends are truly special and that special bond that you develop with someone is something that is very rare. Some say that you can count on one hand how many true friends you have and if you have more than five than you must be truly blessed. Nonetheless, friendships are worth having and they come in so many different ways. Regardless of what type of friendship you have with someone, hold on it as long as you can. While sometimes friends might make you mad or they might upset you, don’t end friendships unless the friendship is truly unbearable to repair.
A friendship that is repairable should be repaired but one that doesn’t should be cried about. While sometimes it hurts to end friendships, we must learn to move on in life no matter how many memories we had with that friend. Friendships worth keeping won’t end and those friends who want to be a part of your life will make it known.
Friendships are developed through organizational associations or through random parties or social settings but regardless of how one begins, it is about where it ends. Friendships are building blocks to great partnerships that we all need in life. Friends tell us the things we don’t just want to hear but what we need to hear. Friends keep us humble and keep our spirits high when we need them.
Friends are people who sympathize and patronizes with us. Friends are people who stand by our side when we face our most difficult moments in life and they are with us during our most successful moments. Friends are people who don’t forsake us or talk about us behind our back. Friends are people who defend our honor even when others try to bash us. Friends are people who stand up for us no matter how many people might be against us. Friends are incredible people who many of us are thankful to have in our life.
Those true friends that become our best friends are even more incredible because they share the burden of shouldering our secrets and they are the main one’s we confide in no matter the situation. Best friends are truly people that we know they will be there for us not only when we need money or a place to stay but when we need someone to talk to in the wee hours of the night and when we need shoulder to cry on in the middle of the day. Best friends are those individuals who will fly from way across the country just to stand by our side when we are having surgery. Best friends are those people are one of the first to wish Happy Birthday and are one of the first to check on you when they haven’t heard from you in day or two.
Nonetheless, friendships are truly special because it is your friends that uplift you in pray and they are the ones you can always depend on to pray on your family. Friendships are rare for some of us but be thankful for those that you do have. Friendships are incredible to have and a blessing to enjoy. That’s why we can’t reflect on those friendships that we lose but we must be thankful for those friendships that we still have.
So as many of us reflect on friendships, we need to understand that many that are special when we have them and are sobering when we lose them. However no matter how many friendships we gain or how many we lose, we need to make sure that with each friendship we lose, we understand why they are ending and with each friendship we gain, we need to realize why we gained this friendship. Friendships can develop over pizza or a hamburger but the reality is that we should just rejoice in the friendships we have had throughout our lives no matter if they were good or bad. With each friendship we as people have had, we have learned important lessons throughout them.
Nonetheless, a friend no matter if they are a Christian, Baptist, Catholic, Muslim, Jew, Hindi, Buddhist, Jehovah Witness or a non-believer, we can learn something about ourselves in each of them. A friend no matter if they are an African American, Chinese, Caucasian, Japanese, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, African, etc. we can learn diversity through diversifying our friendships. No matter if your friend is big, tall, short, or slim; all friendships offer us something that we sometimes take for granted. That’s why we need to cherish our friendships for what they give us and what we gain from them.
Friendships can teach us so much about life so hold on those you can hold on to and repair those who can still be repaired. Friendships are truly a blessing that all of us need to help us get through life a little bit easier. Friendships make life so much more memorable and sometimes they can make life regrettable but if we only focus on the positives than we will see that God has blessed us with many outstanding friends through our life. Friendships are worth having and are worth keeping as long as we can.
So hold on to your friends, tell your friends how you feel, and make sure your friends know you appreciate them. Tell your friends you love them when you can and make sure you always keep the lines of communication open between you and your friends. Uplift your friends, encourage your friends, and motivate your friends whenever the opportunity arises. Make sure your friends know how truly thankful you are for having them as a friend. Friendships are wonderful to have and for those of us who have them, let’s cherish them for as long as we can.
Always help a friend in need when you can. Never abandon your friend. Help your friend achieve their goals and trust me, a real friend will help you achieve yours. A friend will make you stronger mentally, spiritually, culturally and emotionally. Keep your friends encouraged but most of all keep your friends motivated. Above all else, make sure your friends know how important they are to you.
Friendships are unique, special, and truly inspirational. So make sure your friends understand just how much you care for them. Make sure your friends are inspired by you and you are inspired by them. Build up your friends don’t tear them down. Friendships are what you invest them. If you invest in your friends properly and positively than 9 times of out 10, you will receive the same results back. Life is not about the amount of breaths you take but it’s about the amount of breaths that take your breath away. Those moments that take your breath away should have been experienced with your friends. Your friends are the ones who should take your breath one or they should help you experience those moments that will take your breath away.
Friendships are building blocks to success. Friendships are building blocks of character. Friendships are building blocks of spirituality. Friendships are building blocks of diversity. Friendships are building blocks of cultural immersion. Friendships are building blocks to a more fulfilling life. But most of all friendships play a role in whom we are and who we become.
Friendships are what we make of them. No matter how many times you talk to your friends, should not define your friendship. No matter how little you take to your friends, should not define your friendship. Friendships should be defined by the moments that you share with them and the amount of things you share in common with them not you all’s differences. Friendships should be defined by not what you take from it but by what you share in it. Friendships are partnerships developed with people you like, trust and are honest with. Friends accept you for your flaws and alls but most of all friends don’t ask no more of you than you can handle.
However remember above all us that true friends are put in your life for a reason, not a season. True friends are hard to come back so hold on to those types of friendships. Hold on those true friends who will go to bat for you even when you are wrong about your actions but then they will tell you that were wrong later on in a more private setting…lol. True friends are blessings so don’t end those unless you absolutely have to. True friends guide you in the right direction and will follow you in the right direction so don’t abuse those friendships. True friends don’t mind playing second fiddle when they have to but you shouldn’t mind playing second fiddle to them. True friends will take that “L” for the team and those are the friendships that you should really cherish the moment.
HOLD ON TO FRIENDSHIPS FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN!
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU WILL EVER FIND FRIENDSHIPS LIKE THE ONES YOU HAVE NOW!
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